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It was a strong admonition in the form of a blog post brought to my attention via a Facebook share. The comment I began to write was so visceral and longI decided to turn it into a blog post. Here goes:. No matter your response, some men and boys of color will continue to pursue whoever the fuck they want—including white men—with or without your or their support, love and understanding.

Furthermore, these boys and men of color who want white men will continue to bear witness to their experiences, including both the joy and pain that comes from being attracted to a member of the politically, financially and culturally dominant race in our society. Long ago, in a far-off place called my violent childhood, I turned to white men for a reason.

Actually, for many reasons. Some of them are illuminated in a blog post titled, how I fell in love with white men. Point: sure, some of my reasons have to do with white men being members of the dominant race and the internalized racism and homophobia that runs through my veins.

But know this, niggers who are sick of me and others like me expressing our hurt feelings over racist gay men: one significant factor in my turning to white men and white people in general was the fact that my tired, black boy ass was fed up with black people, starting with my family, all up in my face aggressively, trying to tell me how the fuck to live my life!

Both types of rejection hurt my feelings. Both are the subject of my writing and social media posts. Are you going get all up in my face aggressively and tell me to get over it? Tell me to stop crying and posting about it? Any kind of aggressive response by black folks to my feelings and choices will only end up pushing me even further into the arms of the white man, regardless whether or not the white man wants me.

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Skip to content Menu. Posted on March 15, October 30, by Randy Boyd. Rejecting the rejected. Are you even thinking about it, bro? Is that what you want? If it is, fuck you now and fuck you forever. Previous On colorblind white people. Subscribe Subscribed. Randy Boyd author. Sign me up.

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